Formats and concentration
Is eau de toilette only for men
Eau de toilette is not a men's-only category. It is a fragrance product descriptor used across gender marketing, so choose from the actual scent, format and your preferences rather than interpreting EDT as a gender rule.
A HUME Fragrance buying guide

Read the term separately
EDT does not tell you whether a fragrance is floral, woody, fresh or sweet. The note structure and product description provide those clues.
Use categories as navigation
Men's, women's and unisex labels may help browsing without deciding what you enjoy. You can explore outside a category if the scent description appeals.
Compare the exact product
Do not assume an EDT version is simply a weaker EDP or automatically the milder choice. Check the specific composition and evaluate it through wear.
Try this before you buy
Describe the fragrance direction you want without mentioning a gender label, then compare actual listings.